Wednesday, January 13, 2010

First Conversation Mistakes

Most women know if they are going to sleep with a man within the first 5 minutes of meeting. If you are able to get the number... don't mess it up by saying the wrong thing. This post will go over First Conversation Mistakes.

#1 Don't talk about Ex's... She doesn't want to hear about your ex... how much you cared about her, how she dumped you or the crazy break up. Your first convo should be light, fun, and an even exchange of information to get to know each other. We all have a past this is not the time to talk about it. For now... leave it in the past.

#2 Don't talk about Money... We all know we are all impressed by money... If you don't have it... it's okay not to talk about it... If you do have it, you shouldn't flaunt it because it makes you come off as arrogant. If you have it, she will see and if she only wants you for money... is this a girl you really want to deal with?

#3 Be original... Don't hit her with all the pick up lines that she has heard a thousand times before... Be original and genuine

#4 Shut Up!!! Don't dominate the conversation, allow her to talk about herself. Don't talk too much about yourself... She'll be impressed by a man that can listen.

#5 Cut it short... Don't reveal too much... If you don't know what I mean by that, you need to refer back to some of my previous posts. It's all about the thrill of the chase. We all want what we can't have. If you disclose everything there is nothing to pursue.

So when you meet somebody be sure to follow these rules so there will be more than one phone call!!!

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